Fertility Prayers at Ladies Night In

fertility prayersWe drew pictures in Ladies Night In at our Danbury meeting on Tuesday night.

 

It wasn’t my idea, although if you knew me well, you could have been right that it was my idea. It just wasn’t this time.

 

It was Carrie Van Steen’s idea. Give credit where credit is due.

 

Carrie was inspired by one of our brave ladies who suggested praying to the “Ovary God”.

 

Another first.

 

In twenty-five years working in the field of infertility and fertility treatment, I never heard of or thought of an Ovary God. Or Goddess.

 

I kind of love the idea of one.

 

After all, why not?

Kokopelli, Fertility Deity

Kokopelli is a fertility deity most commonly associated with the Hopi tribe from the southwest. He was also a mischief maker. I never liked him. I never wanted to put my fate in his hands. He was too impulsive and too nonsensical.

 

I think I like the idea of a female God/Goddess directly related to the ovaries more then Kokopelli.

 

A generous, sweet, compassionate and funny Goddess.

 

All that and more.

 

If I get to design my own Ovary Goddess, then I make her purple.

 

And red.

 

And green.

 

And round.

 

And shiny.

 

And very, very lush.

 

If I were going to paint my Ovary Goddess, then I would use squishy, mushy, pliable oil paints with lots of medium. Lots and lots of layers of paint. I’d make her complicated and very simple and basic at the same time.

 

A Fertility Goddess for One Thing

 

A Fertility Goddess designed for exactly one thing. Creating an opportunity of new life. A possibility. Not a certainty.

 

Just a hope.  

 

A hope with a lot of power behind it.

 

Not a gratuitous hope; a hope with depth and strength and resilience.

 

A hope with a physical form; one that occupies a space and place, with a specific shape.

 

Maybe your Goddess wouldn’t look like a physical ovary. Maybe your Goddess would take on some more spiritual or esoteric form.

 

I know one thing for sure.

 

An Ovary God or Goddess would not be punishing. No matter what you may think or be afraid that you deserve, no Ovary God or Goddess would do anything but their best.

 

We each get to create what we believe in; what we put our faith and hope in.

 

I chose to put my faith in a God and Goddess that support and love me.

 

What about you?

 

What does your Ovary God or Fertility Goddess look like? What do they act like?

 

Can you believe that creating something to believe in will support your fertility efforts?

 

If nothing else, believe in yourself.

 

I know I do.

 

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Topics: Fertility, Feelings, Support

Lisa Rosenthal

Lisa has over thirty years of experience in the fertility field. After her personal infertility journey, she felt dissatisfied with the lack of comprehensive services available to support her. She was determined to help others undergoing fertility treatment. Lisa has been with RMACT for eleven years and serves as Patient Advocate and the Strategic Content Lead.

Lisa is the teacher and founder of Fertile Yoga, a program designed to support men and women on their quest for their families through gentle movement and meditation.

Lisa’s true passion is supporting patients getting into treatment, being able to stay in treatment and staying whole and complete throughout the process. Lisa is also a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist, which is helpful in her work with fertility patients.

Her experience also includes working with RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association and The American Fertility Association (now Path2Parenthood), where she was Educational Coordinator, Conference Director and Assistant Executive Director.

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